39891349_2059310557421190_1190787602735693824_oShe said beforehand she will visit me at the UST Hospital where I was confined during my heart treatment.. but the weather never cooperated – Habagat is wrecking havoc here there and everywhere in Metro Manila. But she did fulfilled her promise – we still met before I went back home in Iloilo City on August 15,2018. When the Queen promised – come habagat & highwaters.. she fulfills. The reigning Queen of Filipino Funk-Jazz-Rock-Blues Fusion, singer-songwriter par excellence – the one & only Kat Agarrado.

Ofcourse, mostly knew her as the artist. But who really is Kat? Sino nga ba talaga si Kat? .. back in those Multiply.com days ( remember this before Facebook dominated the social media scene?), I happened to see this Sinosikat? fan page – explored their music and from thereafter I became their number one fan. When I had my FB account nine years ago, I searched for SINOSIKAT? fan page to continue my music connections with the band & their musical journey.  Just to make chances only,  I added Kat herself in my friends list .. and she did accepted my friends request ! The rest is history now.

I admit, I always thought that celebrities like Kat is just like some all other celebrities who are seems unreachable coz of their star-like milkyway status.. so, just like any ordinary fan, I only just follows her whenever she have updates on her timeline.. making some comments and emoticons on her photos and music videos.  Kat wasn’t such star-crazed celebrity who are too blinded by the limelight and her superstar status.

I never expected this even in my dreams but on the 15th of August, a few days after I was discharged from UST Hospital,  I finally met her.. she is not just enchantedly beautiful but I can see her inner beauty radiates deep down from within. I can feel her soul, her kind & compassionate heart and positive wisdom. She is so down-to-earth that when she  talks I felt it seems I’m just talking to a favorite cutie pamangkin or a lovely-dovey daughter. 

And why I am giving much attention to Kat and her music? .. coz im her number one fan.. in my life and beyond.

Her musical career path is going to be as colorful more than it is expected, more than what she deserves.  She is blessed and gifted with much talents only given to some rare few.

.. and this is just the starting point of a beautiful journey.


Recalling my own Near Death Experience (NDE) .



I admit, more than four years have passed since my NDE, I became so human again. I feel the same pains like anyone does. I am depressed recalling those days I was in the ICU at Iloilo Mission Hospital after I miraculously survived a fatal cardiac arrest & was clinically dead. My whole health condition was extremely critical & full of uncertainties. Laying helplessly in the ICU, I was already administered the sacrament of extreme unction ( the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick, a Catholic rites which is administered both to the dying and to those who are gravely ill ) I can still feel the needle pains both in my swollen arms which I have to endure each day my IV lines need to be re-inserted due to dislodged IV lines… I can’t even hardly sit longer than a…

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Tricia Barker

Free yourself from the psychological structure of society, which is to free yourself from the essence of conflict. –Jiddu Krishnamurti Disconnection: There’s no disconnection like real disconnection. Leaving the body behind during my near-death experience gave me a perspective that I never imagined possible as an agnostic. I carried none of my wounds to other […]


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Makasarili — siKat

Sasabihin ko sayo ang tungkol sa mga taong makasarili. Kahit alam nilang sasaktan ka lang nila, maglalakad sila sa buhay mo para matikman ka, dahil ikaw ang klase ng tao na ayaw nilang mapalampas. Masyado kang makinang para di ka maramdaman. ‘Pag nakita na nila ang lahat ng ikaw at lahat ng kaya mong ibigay. […]

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“..one day, when I become an Angel, I will take care of you too…” ~Chirady Mae Reyes +March 10,1986 – April 25,2011

On one occasion, Chirady was confined then at Iloilo Mission Hospital which a few months back, she was diagnosed with fourth stage leukemia, she sent me this text message [stated above] – the message was intended for us, her colleague at Bank of the Philippines Islands . One of my visits to her at the hospital was on late afternoon of April 24,2011, I fetched a priest to bless her according to Catholic rites per her own request- not knowing that was will be our last moment seeing each other. On early morning the next day, I received a message from her mom that Chirady finally went home peacefully in Paradise.
Some two months after, June 1,2011, I had a sudden fatal cardiac arrest – I was clinically dead at Iloilo Mission Hospital too and medically with a slim chance of survival, having flat line, no brain activity, dilated pupils and no vital sign of life.. but miraculously I was revived back to life… Angel Chi fulfilled her angelic promise that the day came – & she indeed took care of me as I am dying at the emergency room at Iloilo Mission Hospital. I knew, and I felt her presence, her angelic Divinity, ONE with the Light, who was with me all along my ordeal, a familiar voice softly reverberated saying “ one day, when I become an angel, I will take care of you too.”
One afternoon on April 25th 2015 at 14:02 PM , the 4th year death anniversary of Chirady’s material being, I was writing a note on my FB message timeline, something unusual happened – but this is just an ordinary occurrences to me now and maybe still strange to someone else. I felt her presence and I knew Chirady visted me that very moment – & thru a sign, a handy flashlight I always keep with me in my desk just beside my bed, lighted up on it’s own . Like I said, this is just a normal occurrence to me now… anyone may have different explanation or interpretation about this but my humble opinion if i believe in her presence… absolutely yes, I believed.
The day will surely come, when my borrowed second life is over and my earthly mission is finally done, I am going back home also – One with Light once again, in a place we once call Heaven- but now I call it HOME, a place in Heavenly paradise where Chirady resides now.

The Door.


June 2,2011, 3AM,  day 2 at the Iloilo Mission Hospital-ICU after I survived a fatal cardiac arrest  the day  I was declared clinically dead.   I was  still in a very unstable & critical condition for the past three days but worrying about my medical condition, even dying at any point in time that moment  was never ever a concern for me. 

I dreamed I was driving a very fast vehicle similar to a racing car but I can no longer have any appropriate description what kind of a fast craft was that today,  & then I reached a place, seems I felt our home ( but our own home  back then was much different than this one) . I hurriedly went to the main door and opened the door knob but was locked from the inside… I knocked several times & I wanted to go in with much urgent desire – I was forcing to open the knob until I heard a voice – a familiar caring soft voice, telling me: ” please don’t come in yet ”- the voice was from my mom, (she passed away some years ago)… then I woke up, called the ICU nurse because I was having heart palpitations.  She checked my vital signs monitor, the IV lines, etc.  & made sure All is alright. 

The exact time was 3 AM … then & I smelled the aroma of a soothing fragrance and I felt a familiar caring embrace from a gentle waive of thin air .

I was thirsty & hungry so I asked for something to eat & the nurse gave me a hot cereal drink …then, after that, the nurses settled me back comfortably in my bed.

I miss my mom so much… with tears streaming down my cheeks, I peacefully went back to sleep hoping to dream of her again.

Dear Diary : Sept.4,2015


Dear Diary , 

entry 1:   I opened my FB Timeline today at around  8AM,  the same time I switched on the TV  each day for some news updates what’s going on around .  

entry 2:   As usual , what’s on the TV is almost the same as what I am reading on my newsfeed  ( yes, I need to keep updated with the latest viral social trends too, including the latest movies, music & updates about *ALDUB  (*ALDUB is a local TV show which is the “talk of the town”  trending on the social media here today ) 

entry 3:    I am happy ‘coz the first post I’ve read was from my musician friend Nicole Laurel Asensio about her live interviews with CNN Philippines and ANC for her “SCHIZOPRANO”  debut Album Launching.  I also have to post birthday greetings to all celebrants appearing on the right page corner.  

entry 4:   Some posts started to popped up one after the other… there are funny thoughts, simple but inspirational insights starts pouring in. I always enjoyed these daily way of life which, so ordinary most of us seldom noticed it’s just all recurring daily life cycles . A friend sharing her pretty selfies, a cute teen on the motorbike with lots of comments from her mostly  relatives & friends saying to take extra precautions which I myself posted to say ” you have to wear protective gears always when driving a motorcycle for safety “. I always appreciate this kind of caring reminders.

entry 5:   Then a post about the refugees fleeing from Syria heading to Europe or to any country who can become their refuge. The photos attached made me so terribly sad especially the kid who drowned and two kids have their feet amputated.  The story and photos is unbearable if one has a compassionate heart.  This is too much to bear and it is very sad that these things are happening right under our very own noses, anywhere in all four corners of the world. We have our own domestic concerns too.  Name it and we have it  and I don’t have to enumerate everything ‘cos this will just consumed every spaces available here.

entry 6:   FB is a one-stop-shop  for all information, name it, we can find it here – nothing to search and it just popped up in your timeline. Of course I miss friends who once where active on sharing anything on their timelines but no longer or rarely seen online now. I myself, have many times planned to deactivate my own FB account but the page I am one of the admin prevented me to do so.

entry 7:   Admittedly I cannot read everything on my newsfeed … because the systems can pumped up so many kind of posts faster than how I scrolled up and down the mouse.

entry 8:   And by the way… I am so sorry but I never accept games invites from anyone.